Friday, December 28, 2007

How Your Child's Journal Can Become his Best Friend

Years of international in-depth research show clearly that children are more likely to succeed in learning when their families actively support them. When you and other family members read with or to your children, help them with homework or educational activities, talk with their educators or co-homeschoolers, and participate in school, homeschool or other learning activities, you give your children a tremendous advantage and a firm foundation and basis for learning.

Other than helping your child or children to grow up healthy and happy, the most important thing that you can do for them is to help them develop their reading and writing skills. It is no exaggeration to say that how well children learn to read affects directly not only how successful they are in their educational activities, but how well they do throughout their lives. When children learn to read, they have the key that opens the door to all the knowledge of the world. Without this key, many children are left behind. The foundation for learning to read is in place long before children enter the formal school arena and begin formal reading instruction.

You, as a parent, together with your family, help to create this foundation by talking, listening, and reading to your children every day and by showing them that you value, use, and enjoy reading in your lives. Participating in family-oriented activities and conversations subtly reinforces this foundation.

Most of the activities that make learning experiences out of the everyday routines in which you participate with your children use materials that are found in your home or that can be had free-of-charge from the local library. You design the activities to be fun for both you and your children as you help them to gain the skills they need to become readers and develop into independent little people. These activities often find their way into a child’s journal, either by way of scribbles, writing or pasting or drawing pictures.

I have designed a journal with my own children in mind, knowing that in time with continued journal use, they will begin to plan their activities, vent their feeling and frustrations, note their own achievements, and diarise their happiness, hopes and dreams.

It is vitally important to stress that a journal is your child’s personal and private document and should be treated as such. It should be a place where your child can just “be”. A child should not be forced to show or display his or her journal. If he or she chooses to display her “work” that is entirely up to the child, but at all times he or she must be absolutely confident that this is his or her “space”. There is a level of “trust” between a person and their journal, even amongst adults. This trust should never be compromised or broken.

At the end of the journal or school year, whichever applies to you or your family, if your child chooses to display the journal, you will without a doubt immediately glean information regarding their interests, concerns, abilities, identify possibly areas of conflict. Most of all you will see how your precious child has developed as an individual in their thoughts, actions, reading and writing.

The journals, which I have made for boys and girls (imagine your son's face when he gets a journal with flowers and fairies yeeeuuuckkk!) will be uploaded in the first week of the New Year. I will post the links shortly.

This article is (c) Donnette E Davis 2007 and awaiting live publication. Please do not copy. Thank you.

Description & Guidelines (?) of Homeschooling in South Africa

Our site has been added to Homeschoolmedia and while setting up my profile I came across a brilliant concept of creating a Wiki South Africa on Homeschooling. This is for homeschoolers written by homeschoolers and no entry had been made for South Africa. I searched St Aiden's for information that I provide to my visitors on the so-called requirements and guidelines of homeschooling in South Africa and based my Wiki entry on that information.

Description of Homeschooling in South Africa (Adapted from the Education Department)

Home schooling is a programme of education that a parent may provide to his or her child at home.

It is prescribed that a parent of a learner who is of compulsory school-going age should apply to the Head of the Department of Education of the province involved to register the learner for receiving education at home. This is in fact not the case. The Constitution of South Africa allows for homeschooling without registering with the Education Department. There are steps in place to try and amend this, but no new laws have been promulgated as yet. The following are compulsory phases of education:

The foundation phase (grades 1 - 3)
The intermediate phase (grades 4 - 6)
The senior phase (grades 7 - 9)

A parent of a learner who is no longer of compulsory school-going age or grade need not apply for registration for home schooling.

It is prescribed by the Education Department that after the learner has been registered for home schooling, the parent must do the following:

Keep a record of attendance.
Keep a portfolio of the learner's work.
Maintain up-to-date records of the learner's progress.
Keep a portfolio of the educational support given to the learner.
Keep evidence of the continuous assessment of the learner's work.
Keep evidence of the assessment and or examinations at the end of each year.
Keep evidence at the end of Grades 3, 6 and 9 that shows whether the learner has achieved the outcomes for these grades.

Steps to follow

It is suggested that a parent must: apply to the head of the Department of Education of the province where they live to register a child (learner) for home schooling;

submit the application form with a copy of the learner’s birth certificate;

supply documentation that outlines the unit standards the parent will facilitate (teach).

The application forms can be obtained from any provincial Department of Education.

The majority of homeschoolers in South Africa have elected not to register with the Department of Education but choose instead to register with a homeschooling defensor organisation that protects their constitutional rights.

There are a number of curricula available for purchase in South Africa, covering a variety of homeschooling methods. Some families choose the unschooling or eclectic approach.

Whichever method is decided upon by the homeschooling family, the important aspects are that the child or children get a one-on-one interaction with their educator/parent in a loving, safe and secure environment and the child is allowed and in fact encouraged to develop at his or her own pace.

Contrary to popular belief amongst professional educators in South Africa, a lack of socialisation is rarely a factor when considering homeschooling your children as they have constant interaction with the family, and very often close support groups are formed within communities enabling the child or children to interact with individuals of all ages, thus developing their own social skills whilst allowing them to actually enjoy their learning experience.

Wednesday, December 26, 2007

Christmas 2007

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My precious gift

Tuesday, December 25, 2007

Aiden & His New Best Friend

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Christmas Day 2007 ~ St Aiden's Homeschool

Entry for 25 December 2007

Hello Everyone

It's a bright sunny (and rain-free) morning (not going to stay that way sadly) here in Pietermaritzburg. Sav and River are spending some time with their father and his mother in Gauteng and so the house has been quiet for the last 3 days, and will be still they return home later this week.

This is not a website update as such, just a Christmas message full of good wishes and blessings for each of you. I am not usually stuck for words and normally get straight in and the fingers do the walking.

But today I have received a mail from an internet colleague with something that I am happy that I read. When starting to read it I thought "Good grief, this is shocking!" until I got half way through and realised the true meaning of the message it was sending through. I will CCP it here:

'Twas the Night Before Christmas

An Internet Marketer's Adaptation for 2007 (with apologies to Clement C. Moore)

'Twas the night before Christmas and all cross the 'net

Marketers were hoping that clickthroughs, they'd get.

The products were finished and ready to go

outsourced and prepared by those "in the know"

"The customer first!" is the mantra we say

so our software and services will help them today.

The squeeze page, the copy, the ecommerce cart

the site was all ready, now we'd done our part.

Affiliates were lined up now it was their turn

They hoped that commissions, yes BIG ones, they'd earn!

On Morin, On Silver, On Fallon and Dale.

Your emails are bringing big sale after sale!

On Brunson, on Filsaime, On Ambrose and Reese...

Conversions are crazy, promote again please?

Jackpot! A huge launch! filled with riches galore, but in the midst of it all

I wondered, "could there by more?"

And that's when it hit me, a truth so supreme,

that money and sales didn't mean anything.

A chance to give back because Christmas is giving,

a way we can honor the Christ that is living.

'Cause that is what Christmas is really about.

God gave His Son and now there's no doubt...

On the night before Christmas it could be the start

when you find God's love for you there in your heart."

May you know the joy and reality of Christmas today, and every day.

I feel blessed that I have had the opportunity (though unfortunate circumstances sent me in this direction) to have been able to have been a part of your lives in one small way or another. I also feel truly blessed that I have been able to create and provide content & resources for our HS families to use, and when I read my incoming mail, very often a tear comes to my eye when the writer explains just how in some small way we have made a difference to their homeschooling and very often family life.

St Aiden's has become a popular homeschooling resource on the internet, and I have you to thank for your comments, thoughts, encouragement and yes, even criticisms. We are here to provide what YOU need so that you can be in the position to give your children the best gift possible - that of yourself. I thank everyone deeply and sincerely for your support through the year, and look forward to a new year of new content, new ideas and a great and fun learning experience for educators and chldren alike.

St Aiden's has recently been listed at http://www.hslaunch.com/ as one of the top educational Homeschooling sites. Again, thank you.

Whether you celebrate Christmas or not, I wish you a happy season and a prosperous new year!

As always you are welcome to leave your comments on my yahoo blog or this HS blog.

Have a safe and blessed Christmas!

Blessings
Donnette

PS - To everyone who sent links through - thank you. I finally did manage to obtain the license for 12 Days of Christmas Graphics and the files are uploaded at http://www.staidenshomeschool.com/activities/christmas/12_days_xmas.html
Educational of course, but you can grab the sheet music and midi file as well...

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Man must search for what is right, and let happiness come on its own. Johann Pestalozzi

Thursday, December 20, 2007

New FREE Parenting and Family (Legal) eBooks

The following ebooks have been added to St Aiden's Homeschool:
10 Things Divorced Parents Should Do
17 Reasons to Homeschool Your Kids
3 Key Ways for Child Support to Continue
Addressing Domestic Violence in South Africa
ADHD - Helping Your Child Cope
Adoption - Making Sure You Are Ready
Adult ADD - Myths & Legends
Allergies May Run in Families
An Insight on When to Homeschool Your Children
Baby Lullaby
Baby Sleep Tips
Birth Disorder - How to Cope
Celebrating Fathers
Chasing After Child Support
Child Custody - Dallas
Child Custody - Indiana
Child Custody - New Hampshire
Child Custody - New York
Child Custody - Utah
Child Custody - Washington
Child Custody - Chicago
Child Safety Tips
Child Sleep Disorder
Children with a Learning Disability
Children are People, Not Machines
Children with High Autism
DNA Test - How to Get One
Coping With Birth Disorder
Dealing With Childhood Obesity
Decorating a Kids Room
Depression in Children
Developing Parenting Skills
Divorce - Contested and Uncontested
Divorce & Alienation
Divorce : Parenting Mistakes & How to Avoid Them
Educational Toys For Toddlers
Family Motivation - The Glue That Holds Families Together
First Time Parenting - Your Toddler
Gender Roles & Homeschooling
Goals of Natural Parenting
Good Parenting - Providing Benefits for Life
Guiding Behaviour for Peaceful Parenting
Homeschooling and Your Special Child
Homeschooling Info That Every HS Family Should Know
Homeschooling Your Child
Homeschooling
Homeschooling - How to Make it Fun
How to Recognise an Abused Child
How to Successfully Homeschool Your Child
Marriages May End, Families Are Forever
Mommy & Baby - Styles of Parenting
Monitoring Your Child's Computer - For Their Safety
Parenting Agreement
Parenting Predicaments
Parenting Teenagers
Parenting Tips
Paternity Testing
Positive Discipline Techniques
Positive Parenting
Potty Training Resistance
Safe From Strangers
South Africa - Protecting the Children
South Africa - A Child's Right to Maintenance & Support
Simple Ways to Teach Colours
Simple Ways to Teach Shapes
Single Parenting - Keeping the Stress Out
Surviving as a Single Parent
Taking Care of Your Baby
Teenager Parenting
The 3 R's - How to Handle a Tantrum
Therapeutic Parenting Approach
Time Off
Tips for Successful Parenting
Tips for Coping with ADHD
Top Tips for Potty Training Accidents
Toughest Parenting - The Toddler Years
Understanding Why Your Child Has Been Recommended for Testin
When Parents Disagree

Tuesday, December 18, 2007

Over 30 Free Christmas Ebooks

Hundreds of free Christmas Downloads, includingover 30 Christmas books, Kids Activity & Colouring Books, Christmas Recipe Books, Christmas Classic Stories, Decorating Ideas, Arts, Crafts, Christmas Games, Family Christmas Gift Ideas and more...

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Monday, December 10, 2007

Free Christmas Goodies, eBooks and More

Hello Everyone!

Please bear with me if I send out a few more mails than usual this week. I think it makes more sense to send through updates as they are done for the next week or two rather than try and cram it all into one very long mail.

The following eBooks are available for download at http://www.staidenshomeschool.com/activities/christmas/ebooks.html

50 Great Decorating Ideas on a Tight Budget
Celebrating the Season with Christmas Party Ideas
Craft Projects Made Out Of Christmas Cards
Edible Christmas Ornaments
Fun Christmas Activities to do with Kids
Great but Cheap Christmas Ideas
New Ways to Use Old Christmas Cards
Holiday eBook
Old Fashioned Christmas
Outdoor Christmas Decorations
Recapture the Magic of Christmas
Sharing the Christmas Story with Kids in 4 Easy Steps
Victorian Christmas Decorations
Wind Chimes for Christmas
Christmas Decoration Ideas for Kids
Christmas Party Games for Kids


The Caroler
Free Christmas Carol Electronic eBook

There are an additional 20 or so books on this page - too long for one mail.

I do hope you enjoy them. I will send out another update mail shortly with some really great free stuff.

Hope you all had a fantastic weekend, and wishing everyone a safe and blessed week ahead.

Blessings
Donnette

Thursday, December 6, 2007

St Aidens ~ Chritstmas Updates

St Aidens ~ Merry Christmas
The days are flying past and there are only 19 days left to Christmas. In keeping with our Christmas learning experience, I have continued to upload and resource Christmas-themed educational resources, and some really exceptional downloads for mums. There have been way too many additions to the website in the past week for me to mention them all, but if you visit the URL's below you will be directed to the new additions.

Christmas Activity Books - 3 New additions at the time of sending this mail are the Santa Activity Pack, Snowman Activity Pack and Christmas Alphabet Activity Pack. They can be found at http://www.staidenshomeschool.com/activities/printables/activitybooks/christmas.html

Going Green for Christmas - A new selection of Environmental PDF eBooks that you can download for free. You can find 3 new eBooks at http://www.staidenshomeschool.com/global_warming/globalwarming.html

Printable Christmas Stories and Poems:
http://www.staidenshomeschool.com/activities/christmas/christmas_stories_poems_printable.html

3 really full pages of Scrapbooking Accessories:
http://www.staidenshomeschool.com/activities/christmas/scrapbooking.html

Printable Christmas Puzzles for Little Kids:
http://www.staidenshomeschool.com/activities/christmas/puzzles.html

Free Interactive Christmas Jigsaw Puzzle, Elf Colouring Book, and a few new Christian Christmas Story Collections are at
http://www.staidenshomeschool.com/activities/christmas/christmas_ebooks.html

Josie Whitehead, well-known UK Poet and Author of Children's literature, wrote a mini-book of poems specifically for our website. You can access this PDF file and a host of others at
http://www.staidenshomeschool.com/activities/christmas/christmas.html

Let me not forget to mention the Christmas Midi-Files you can download for your own use or use them on your website. They are at:
http://www.staidenshomeschool.com/activities/christmas/christmas_midi_files.html

I have managed to get back to reviewing exceptional sites that are definitely worth bookmarking. Today I have to share a site I came across quite by accident, and feel truly honoured that the webmistress knew of my work before I had even made contact with her. Minette will be your very accomplished hostess at AnyFreebies. This is a description of her site:

Freebies up for Grabs! http://anyfreebies.blogspot.com - A blog that provides all kinds of freebies: Free ebooks, Free recipes, free images, free headers, free activity books, free ringtones, freeware and many more. Take advantage of great freebies by visiting anyfreebies.blogspot.com

I hasten to add that after a delightful interaction with Minette and browsing her site, I established that not only does she source free quality educational resources, but she personally assesses the product and the site beforehand. This is especially comforting to me being a little over-the-top about my kids at times :) A site worth visiting, and while you are there, subscribe to the regular updates.

Right, that's it for me this week. I will be in touch again next week with more exceptional free downloads for you and another great site I have reviewed. As always I welcome input and suggestions.

Please take care, and be safe
Blessings
Donnette
http://www.staidenshomeschool.com
email: info@staidenshomeschool.com

PS If the links above are not live in your mail please copy and paste into your browser.

Christmas Mega Activity Book by Donnette E Davis (Book) in Children

Christmas Mega Activity Book by Donnette E Davis (Book) in Children

Christmas Mega Activity Book - Lulu.com - Independent Review

Highly Recommended Educational Book- 5 Dec 2007 by Minette R This ebook contains great information that can be used by teachers and parents while teaching basic skills (such as reading and writing skills) to kids. This is a compilation of all her great activity books just in time for the Christmas Season!

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